Author Archives: davidcates

What Is Authentic Masculinity?

  David Cates fields some non-PC questions about men and sexuality from Charlotte of the Pleasure Mechanics.    

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7 Easy Steps to Whole Body Orgasm

1. Open ALL your pleasure circuits. Yes, the cock has 4,000-24,000 nerve endings (depending on size and circumcision). We like that. (Esp if we haven’t been circumcised.) But the entire body has over 3 MILLION nerve endings spread over 20 … Continue reading

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“A young student of mine… his father committed suicide on Friday.”

Today’s guest post is by Aaron Huey, who walks his talk big time. The Desperate Divinity of Masculinity A young student of mine… his father committed suicide on Friday. I see yet another boy left alone to find his way … Continue reading

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No, Mom, I’m NOT Being Too Hard On Your Boy

Boys are drawn to men. We’ve got something indefinable they need, a nutrient they can’t get from women, no matter how hard they pull on that nipple. This missing nutrient is a big reason our society is so violent, chaotic and insane. Continue reading

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The Women Know What I’m Talking ‘Bout (So Men, Listen Up!)

When the Sexual Healing Project was announced on Deep Masculine 2 weeks ago, who stood up and cheered? Overwhelmingly, women. They’re the ones who recognize the battle scars in their own bodies. They’re the ones who get spooked When Sexual … Continue reading

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What To Do If Your Cock’s Too Small

Forget the staged shrieks of porn actresses being mercilessly battered by beer-bottle cocks. In porn, what the women are screaming for is money, not the dude who’s ramming them for your viewing pleasure. She’s far more interested in the size … Continue reading

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When Sexual Wounds from the Past Return to Haunt the Present

When sex dries up, it’s easy to distance. Or fight. Or just avoid the elephant in the bedroom. That’s no longer necessary. If you’ve been sexually active in America, you’ve got battle scars. If you’re like most people, you work … Continue reading

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A New Man Is Emerging from the Shadows

I’m here to tell you that being a man is the Most Amazing Adventure. Ever. Continue reading

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