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If All Your Sexual Attention is on Your Cock, You're Missing the Ride of Your Life

Imagine you’re eating a sumptuous gourmet feast. All your favorite foods, and some astonishing new flavors. Now imagine that you’re only using 5% of your taste buds. The other 95% are desperately sending messages to your brain, but there’s a … Continue reading

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Is Your Sexuality Out of Control, Like a Runaway Fire Hose?

The sexual current in most men is a powerful force. If we’re not plugged into our bodies in a solid way, the force of that current whips around and sprays into the world like a runaway fire hose. Continue reading

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